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Eliminate Social Anxiety
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Master Relationships
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Emotional Control
Why High-Performing Men Choose Shae Matthews
You have achieved success in your career, but your inner life—confidence, relationships, and peace of mind—feels stuck. Shae Matthews combines 20+ years of experience in transformational therapy, evolutionary psychology, and dating mastery to help you rewire your core beliefs.
ABOUT ME
I’m Passionate About Guiding You Towards Your Best Self
Many men struggle to build and maintain deep connections, often feeling trapped by limiting beliefs and self-doubt. Overthinking, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm can take over, making it difficult to find clarity and confidence. Low energy and a disconnection from the body can leave you feeling stuck, while a lack of purpose and fulfillment creates an ongoing sense of dissatisfaction.
Meet Shae
Matthews
"With over 15 years of experience as an international coach and global nomad, Shae has been part of digital Nomad Lifestyle for the last decade. Over his career as a life coach and mentor, Shae Has also coached and trained thousands of high-performers to unlock a level of resilience, focus, and self-command through his inner Game coaching Methods. His approach combines modern psychology with ancient wisdom, helping you achieve the deepest transformation without feeling overwhelmed or lost."
Book a Call With ShaeRewire Your Mind
Master Your Emotions, Unlock Your Potential.
Book a call and start your transformation with Shae.
Eliminate Social Anxiety:
This is about moving beyond just "coping" with social fear and fundamentally rewiring the root cause of your hesitation. Using proven techniques like Cognitive Restructuring, we will identify and reframe the negative thought patterns that trigger anxiety in professional and social settings. Through safe, gradual exposure exercises and embodiment practices, you will build genuine, unshakeable confidence from the inside out, transforming anxious energy into a natural, magnetic presence that draws people in.
Master Relationships
This process goes deeper than surface-level dating tips; it focuses on the psychology of attraction and the art of creating deep, authentic connections. You will learn to understand attachment styles, master non-verbal communication, and develop the emotional depth that high-quality partners and collaborators are drawn to. The goal is to cultivate a powerful sense of self-worth that makes you a leader in your relationships, able to connect with integrity and build lasting partnerships.
Emotional Control
This is the skill of becoming the master of your internal state, rather than a victim of your reactions. You will learn to stop being triggered by external events—like work pressure or difficult conversations—and instead learn to lead your life with intent. Using powerful tools like mindfulness, state management, and somatic awareness, you will develop the capacity to remain calm and clear-headed under pressure, making you a more effective leader and decision-maker.
Start making changes and move towards mastery.
Achieve your goals faster and enjoy more inner peace. Step into confidence, clarity, and a renewed sense of self because of the changes you have made.
Real Client Stories.
Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive
Simon
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"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"
I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!
Kristoffer
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"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"
Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.
Dave
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"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"
Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.
Frederick
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"Embracing Myself with Shae’s Guidance"
I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.
Matt
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"Far More Effective Than My Therapist!"
I very much appreciate what you do. You are conscientious, fully present, and focused. You have goals for each session and have the patience and fortitude to achieve them. I went to a Psychologist for two years to help me with my commitment and dating issues. He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials. He helped me fix some things, but I'd say you are 100x more effective. You are extremely intuitive, have a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours. I suspect you are an empath, not sure you believe those exist.
Nick
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"Helped Me Navigate Life's Ups and Downs"
Shae has a great ability to help you reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women, it is great to have access to Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation life throws at me. From breakups, to motivation, to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care, and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.
Vince
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"Shae Turned My Confidence Around Overnight!"
I just listened back to the recording of the session I did with Shae recently. It was such a great session and I feel a big shift. The day after this session I went out with a girl who matched me on Bumble. She was hot, recently separated, American, and said she was very picky with who she matched online (didn’t think I had the looks for a hottie to match me). It was the perfect date, we hooked up on the lawn of a stranger's million-dollar beachfront property (they weren’t home at night). I was in such a good frame of mind I just told her everything about what I do and what I’ve done. She was intrigued and loved our time together; then we did it all again the next night as well. I had to leave for travel but she texted me after I left to say those nights were perfect. It was like something I’d dreamed of. She felt my good vibe that’s for sure. Had to share that story with you, uncanny that it was the very next day. Feeling great, thanks again.
