HIGHLIGHTS OF THE RETREAT:

Massive Personal Transformation:
Overcome limiting beliefs, chronic low self-worth, and self-sabotage. Embrace freedom, self-expression, and personal power.

Intensive Group And Personal Coaching:
Led by Shae Matthews and a team of specialist coaches, experience a highly personalized Self Transformation and Lifestyle Design Program.

Once In Lifetime Empowering Group Bonding Experience Like No Other:
Join an exclusive brotherhood and connect with like-minded individuals, fostering deep bonds and mutual growth.

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Feeling Stuck in Your Dating, Emotions, or Purpose?

Anxiety and uncertainty holding you back from stepping forward

Beliefs telling you you're not enough—attractively, emotionally, or spiritually
Frustration in dating, poor connections, or being stuck 
 disconnected, isolated, or hiding in your relationships

Dont Make The Mistake Of Wasting Time Waiting For Life To Change

Book a FREE 30-minute Discovery Call With Shae

Become Confident & Develop Leadership Skills For Life

Self Mastery Training

YOUR PATH TO PERSONAL POWER AND AUTHENTICITY AWAITS

Join Shae Matthews on a transformational journey to reclaim your confidence, master your Mindset, and unlock potential & expression. This personalized experience is designed to accelerate profound changes in your life, relationships, and self-expression. A Personalized Immersive experience of Inner Self Mastery, real world social training both day and night in one of the most amazing cities in Europe.

 

 

Luxury Nomad
Co-Living 

Co Living And Self Development  Experience 

Adventure. Luxury. Transformation.

In a Croatian Villa From
March to May 2025 Croatia

Create A Life Of Choice And Freedom

Inner stability emotional calm, deep presence, real masculine power
Social magnetism authentic charisma with women and purpose in life
Leadership and self-mastery embodied identity, not just tactics
A life of choice grounded decisions, healthier relationships, more fulfillment

Discover how our immersive training can transform your Reality.

Book a FREE 30-minute Discovery Call With Shae

Destiny is not a matter of chance It is a matter of choice.

Join Shae for a Transformational Men’s Journey in Budapest — and Become the Man You’re Meant to Be
It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be claimed.  

This isn’t just therapy.
It’s not just pickup.
This is a full-spectrum upgrade of your masculinity.

In the heart of Europe’s most vibrant city, you’ll experience a deep initiation into your next level identity.

The time is now to change.

Your Adventure Begins Here

You’ve Felt The Call. Now Its Time To Act.

 
Introducing Introducing Shae Matthews 
Also known as "The Inner Game Shaeman", your guide for an immersive, integrative transformational experience.


Imagine an immersive experience that supports you to become a present, powerful and attractive man in all the important areas of your life.

Learn how to regularly access empowered states of purpose, fulfilment, embodiment and consciousness.

Set in the vibrant city of Budapest, our program combines practical training in cold approaching women, seduction, social skills, confidence, and authentic self-expression with guidance on breaking through psychological barriers (trauma, triggers, emotional baggage, limiting beliefs).

Face your truth, feel fully, and finally lead your life.

  This is Exactly What You Need if You:

  • ✔️ Are coming out of a breakup, infidelity, or major life transition
  • ✔️ Struggle to express their sexuality openly, authentically, and confidently
  • ✔️ Want to rewire past conditioning and stop hiding behind overthinking or “nice guy” patterns
  • ✔️ Feel stuck in surface-level social connections and crave real, raw, meaningful interaction

Our transformational experience offers a safe, structured, and powerful space for men to break through personal limitations, reconnect with their inner fire, and build a life of confidence, clarity, and connection.

 

Train to be your Best Self!

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Nervous System Regulation & Conditioning

Regulate anxiety, upgrade mindset, and embody your full masculine presence.

Social Skills & Relational Power development

From eye contact to date mastery, unlock natural attraction and real confidence.

Polarity & Sexual Intent Mastery with Females

Train your body to lead. Learn how to create desire with depth, not gimmicks.

Repair & Rewiring of your Mind and Energy 

Daily embodiment & nervous system training Trauma-aware shadow work Infield initiation drills Mindset reprogramming

Relational & Emotional Intelligence Development

Healthy attunement training Social calibration & real-world feedback Texting & dating dynamics Sexual energy & emotional leadership

Embodied Presence Training & State Control Mastery for Dating & Life

Learn how to feel good in your own skin  and generate empowering emotions from within.

Experience Reality Bending Possibilities 

Set in a Budapest Hungary, this experience combines structured coaching with personalised adventure, and relaxation.

Full Stack One Of a Kind Training & Support:

  • Choose your amount of days ( 1-14 ) of live immersion training
  • Daily embodiment & meditation
  • Infield social coaching & feedback (day&night options)
  • 1:1 coaching with Shae and his team
  • 1:1 Shadow work and NLP Coaching
  • Custom inner game workbooks and resources
  • Community group (30-day integration support)

 

Once in a Lifestyle Lifestyle Experience & Setting:

  • Training in one of Europe's most social and beautiful cities
  • English-friendly environment for international participants
  • Guided city explorations between training sessions
  • Cultural activities to practice social skills naturally
  • Professional photography of breakthrough moments
  • Accommodation options available

 

Exclusive life changing adventures.

Explore the Scenic Cityscape walk the Breathtaking streets with curated personalised and Guided inner and outer experiences through the majestic central European city of Budapest

Real Client Stories.

Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive

 
 
 

SIMON
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"  

I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!

KRISTOFFER
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"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"  

Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.

DAVE
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"

Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.

FREDERICK
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"Embracing Myself with Shae’s Guidance"

I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.

MATT
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"Far More Effective Than My Therapist! 

I very much appreciate what you do. You are conscientious, fully present, and focused. You have goals for each session and have the patience and fortitude to achieve them. I went to a Psychologist for two years to help me with my commitment and dating issues. He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials. He helped me fix some things, but I'd say you are 100x more effective. You are extremely intuitive, have a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours. I suspect you are an empath, not sure you believe those exist.

NICK
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"Helped Me Navigate Life's Ups and Downs" 

Shae has a great ability to help you reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women, it is great to have access to Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation life throws at me. From breakups, to motivation, to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care, and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.

VINCE
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"Shae Turned My Confidence Around Overnight!" 

I just listened back to the recording of the session I did with Shae recently. It was such a great session and I feel a big shift. The day after this session I went out with a girl who matched me on Bumble. She was hot, recently separated, American, and said she was very picky with who she matched online (didn’t think I had the looks for a hottie to match me). It was the perfect date, we hooked up on the lawn of a stranger's million-dollar beachfront property (they weren’t home at night). I was in such a good frame of mind I just told her everything about what I do and what I’ve done. She was intrigued and loved our time together; then we did it all again the next night as well. I had to leave for travel but she texted me after I left to say those nights were perfect. It was like something I’d dreamed of. She felt my good vibe that’s for sure. Had to share that story with you, uncanny that it was the very next day. Feeling great, thanks again.

Exclusive local adventures.

Scenic cityscape walks Breathtaking trips Guided experiences and local explorations right in the center of Budapest

Level 1:
Social Adventurer Breakthrough

Reset & Rebuild Foundation (3–4 Day Breakthrough Intensive)

For men ready to break free from patterns that keep them stuck. Designed specifically for men who’ve hit a wall — whether from a painful breakup, career success without personal fulfillment, or simply being fed up with feeling invisible to the women they desire.

This foundational experience creates a safe container for men to rebuild their confidence from the ground up.

Perfect for men who:

  • Feel worthless or inadequate despite external success
  • Haven’t approached a woman in months (or years) due to fear
  • Struggle with shame, guilt, or resentment around their sexuality
  • Need to overcome the paralysis of overthinking and self-doubt
  • Want practical skills but require emotional healing first

Level 2:
Romantic Adventurer Immersion

(5–14 Day Total Transformation)
For men ready to claim their full masculine power. This intensive is designed for those who are ready to step into authentic leadership and a magnetic masculine presence.

Perfect for men who:

  • Want to overcome fears and get results
  • Want choice and abundance with women
  • Want to heal masculinity, sexuality, and self-worth
  • Are ready to  integrate all aspects of themselves
  • Want to become a leader in life, not just with women

Your Adventure Awaits You

Live in a way that is powerful and authentic and work on your plan. Imagine a working and training that supports you to become a present, powerful and authentic version of yourself in all the important areas of your life.

Create a healthy balance and purpose in your daily life experience. Not just a space, but an experiential journey into creating a healthy balance and purpose from the inside out. 

Grow with like minded people. Learn how to regularly access empowered states of purpose, fulfillment, masculine embodiment and consciousness with other like-minded men that are working together to make their lives as kick-ass as possible.

Imagine all that while living in luxury villa space, feeling relaxed and being taken care of while simultaneously transforming your life along with a group of others supporting each other every step of the way.

This is not just a holiday, this is an integrative lifestyle experience to BRING YOU BACK TO LIFE!

Your Ultimate Work, Life & Transformation Retreat

Immerse yourself in a world of productivity, adventure, and personal evolution—crafted for ambitious professionals and seekers of mastery.

Level 1: Co-Work & Living Package

Immerse yourself in a seamless blend of work and relaxation with our Level 1 Co-Work & Living Package. Enjoy full access to our beautiful villa space, designed for both productivity and comfort.

Whether you need a focused workspace or a cozy corner to unwind, our villa provides the perfect environment to balance work and leisure.

Beyond the villa, embrace adventure with exclusive access to local experiences, including breathtaking nature walks, scenic boat trips, and guided treks. Connect with like-minded professionals, explore the beauty of the region, and elevate your work-life experience in an inspiring destination.

Level 2: Executive Live-In Coaching Experience

For those seeking deeper transformation and personal growth, our Level 2 Executive Live-In Coaching Experience offers an immersive, holistic journey designed to elevate every aspect of your life.

This exclusive program blends high-level coaching, embodiment practices, and hands-on training to help you unlock your full potential. Enjoy regular embodiment classes, life and career coaching sessions, and social skills development to refine your confidence and presence. Dive into meditation and presence training to cultivate clarity and inner peace.

Experience massage and sensual dominance training, tantra coaching, and 1-on-1 transformational healing sessions that guide you toward deep personal breakthroughs. This all-inclusive experience is designed to help you master your mind, body, and energy, leaving you feeling empowered, aligned, and in control of your destiny.

Who You Become in This Retreat

 

You'll drop outdated masks.
You’ll stop trying to be “enough.”
You’ll remember who you are underneath all the noise and start living from there.

What You’ll Experience

Expect intensive coaching, immersive challenges, and emotional breakthroughs across:

  • Dating & Relational Intelligence – Build genuine connection, presence, and leadership
  • Masculine Embodiment – Cultivate polarity, sexual confidence, and grounded self-trust
  • Shadow Integration – Heal core wounds around shame, rejection, anger, and vulnerability
  • Command & Integration Rituals – Practice rituals that anchor identity and solidify change
  • Life Design – Align your lifestyle with purpose, power, and peace

Who This Is For:

  • Nomads & Professionals seeking adventure and emotional depth
  • Growth-Oriented  High-Achieving Men craving connection and real substance
  • Seekers who’ve absorb all the information but now want embodied, experience
  • Men tired of living in their head ready to return home to body, mission, and truth

What You’ll Leave With

  • A completely different relationship with your identity
  • An upgraded nervous system and energetic baseline
  • Emotional clarity and social confidence that’s no longer performance
  • A tribe of men who see you  and call you forward
  • A personal code that keeps you aligned long after the retreat ends

Inside the Training

  • Deep Shadow Work – Undo years of emotional suppression in a matter of days
  • Masculine Embodiment Practice – Move, speak, and connect with presence
  • Advanced Social Dynamics – Learn how to lead, connect, and influence authentically
  • Touch & Escalation Training – Develop safe, powerful sexual communication
  • Relationship Intelligence – Understand polarity, boundaries, and lasting connection
  • Purpose Alignment – Integrate your relational life with your greater mission
  • Long-Term Mastery Tools – Systems and rituals that ensure the change sticks

Who Is This Retreat For?  

✔️ Digital Nomads & Remote Professionals: Thrive in an inspiring, productivity-focused environment with high-speed internet.

✔️ Growth Seekers: Individuals committed to deep personal development and lasting change.

✔️ High-Achievers seeking a peaceful balance between productivity, relaxation, and adventure.

LOOKING FOR MORE?
  • Explore and experience nomad living in style.
  • Develop Your Lifestyle and experience skills.
  • Meet like minds and grow friendships together. 
  • Improve Your Future with Practical Personal Development Skills and Strategies.

Apply to Join the Immersion

Spots are very limited. Let’s explore what setup, structure, and level of transformation is right for you.

Level 1: Social Adventurer Breakthrough

€5000

Per 4 hour Custom Training Block

 

 

(4 Day Breakthrough Intensive)

For men ready to break free from patterns that keep them stuck. Designed specifically for men who’ve hit a wall — whether from a painful breakup, career success without personal fulfillment, or simply being fed up with feeling invisible to the women they desire.

This foundational experience creates a safe container for men to rebuild their confidence from the ground up.

Perfect for men who:

  • Feel worthless or inadequate despite external success
  • Haven’t approached a woman in months (or years) due to fear
  • Struggle with shame, guilt, or resentment around their sexuality
  • Need to overcome the paralysis of overthinking and self-doubt
  • Want practical skills but require emotional healing first

Level 2: Romantic Adventurer Immersion

€3000

Executive Live-In Coaching Experience

 

(5–14 Day Total Transformation)

For men ready to claim their full masculine power. This intensive is designed for those who are ready to step into authentic leadership and a magnetic masculine presence.

Perfect for men who:

  • Want to overcome fears and get results
  • Want choice and abundance with women
  • Want to heal masculinity, sexuality, and self-worth
  • Are ready to integrate all aspects of themselves
  • Want to become a leader in life, not just with women
Apply for Your Place Today – Schedule a Free Call

Take The Steps To Reset Your Reclaim Your Life

Take a personal journey designed to help you get new skills and change in a supported way to maximize your current potential.

EMBODIMENT

We are first and most palpably physical beings, inseparable from our environment and external pressures. Our ability to navigate complex terrain, mentally map and use hyper-alert senses has defined our success as a species. Yet in modern life we lose much of our movement and physical expression. Whereas other cultures danced, shook in trance, climbed, stalked, crawled, fought and lifted their way through their world, we often just walk and sit through it. This leads to feeling awkward and uncoordinated, not feeling cool and sexy, aging faster, and leading far less driven, masculine lives. This directly impacts our confidence with women, assertiveness in work, ability to experience feelings of calm and control, and our sense of purpose.

TEST YOUR OUTER LIMITS OF YOUR CURRENT BODY

You will learn to test the outer limits of your current body, rapidly upgrade your exercise skill set, and completely remodel your physique and physical expression. Through ancestral movement patterns, modern movement science and testing yourself against the natural environment in rewilding exercises, you’ll explore your latent physical presence. You will become more graceful, improvisational, grounded and flexibly powerful through the course of this training.

HEALING

So much of men’s trauma is repressed and ignored. We’re always told to toughen up and work hard. When denied an outlet to express our fear, anger, frustration, desire, sorrow, joy, and need for intimacy, men become numb, emasculated, docile or full of fury. This retreat allows you to express your fears and desires, and to reconnect with your masculine pride and joy through a deeply healing journey.

UNCOVER AND PROCESS EMOTIONAL TRAUMASY

You’ll learn methods to uncover and process old emotional traumas and negative conditioning from childhood, parents, past relationships, and your own self-sabotage mechanisms. The retreat will address all areas of your experience creating holistic healing effect - releasing trauma from your physical body, through to remodelling the way your thoughts form, how you process emotions, and how your spiritual guiding mission keeps you on course.

TRIBE

Tap into the power of positive tribal affiliation. Without dogma or indoctrination you’ll take the primal and deeply-wired need to join a group of elite men to share wisdom, support each other through healing, learning and growing, and build a life-long journey of shared excellence.

UNIQUE EXPERIENCE TOGETHER

The group will go through a unique experience together and become bonded in a way your work buddies and occasional catch-up friends won’t be able relate to. Out of this week-long initiation a group of brothers will emerge that will continue to support and inspire each other. Much of the retreat’s work will be done in pairs or groups, practising techniques of strength, balance, coordination, focus, emotional expression & sensorial alertness. Learning to trust, support, and communicate deeply and clearly with each other, you and your new tribe will create a shared bond and mission.

INITIATION

The course provides a bridge between the Warrior and Mystic archetypes and takes you on a journey from boyhood to manhood. You’ll complete a modern vision and spiritual quest that will teach you how to open your mind, emotions, and spirit and become powerful and creative in your body. You’ll rekindle the dormant warrior inside you through internal and physical trials and skill upgrades.

EMERGE A NATURAL MAN

You’ll synergise the Wildman, the Warrior, and the Mystic, and emerge a natural and fully embodied man. Using ancient plant medicines and shamanic techniques to tap into collective wisdom and the flow of the natural world, you will be tested and instructed, taking a journey deep into your darkest truths and uncovering your pathway to harmony. You’ll return from your journeys with a renewed sense of clarity in your purpose, weights of stuck emotions dropped, and a firm yet supple confidence about how to move forward while deeply grounded in the present.

THE 6 SCHOOLS OF MASTERY

From these main thematic areas you will study a wide range of techniques from different human potential schools. From physical movement technology, meditation methods, mental focus and optimising strategies to emotional and artistic expression and catharsis training. We will cover 6 main areas of vital masculine skill sets:

1

MOVEMENT, POWER
AND GRACE

Cutting edge movement and exercise systems to make you supple, creative and powerful in your body.

How to turn daily workouts into experiences that don't just build muscle mass but create functional strength, fluid and graceful movement and help you experience life through your entire being rather than being stuck in your head.

2

WILDMAN
MASCULINITY TRAINING

Rediscover your primal power and creative mastery of your natural environment. Through tribal techniques of stalking, senses & sensitivity training, awareness and alertness to your environment, aggression

channeling and war games, ancestral movement patterns, you’ll unleash your primal self: proud, flexibly strong, agile, acutely aware and responsive while also allied deeply to the strengths of his tribe.

3

MEDITATION &
INTERNAL MASTERY

You’ll be deeply immersed in ancient meditation techniques, both static and dynamic, aiming to quieten your mind, access energy centres, and connect your mind, body and emotions into a fully unified and balanced experience. The coaches will reveal secret methods from Shaolin temple, Taoist & Tantra masters, and

tribal traditions to create a synergy of energy, focus, and internal power. With an objective and mentally focussed mind, relaxed and stable awareness over your emotions and body, your meditation becomes a daily continual practice, infused into your way of living.

4

MENTAL MASTERY &
FLOW STATES

You’ll receive cutting edge mental training on how to access flow states, best manage your time and energy, and install effective habits that cut through self-sabotage.

You’ll develop the ability to create effective goal-setting techniques and daily habits to cut through distraction and doubt. This is a real opportunity to create long-term goals aligned with a higher power lifetime mission.

5

MASCULINE POWER &

SEXUAL VITALITY

You’ll learn Dragon Yoga, a mix of ancient Taoist Qi-Gong exercises, and male sexual vitality movement sequences.
Understand systems that increase testosterone, sexual energy flow, and hip and spine mobility to make your body an optimal sex machine.

Learn how to inhabit your body as a complete sensual experience. Feel more pleasure, happiness and relaxation in your body, and master your arousal state for greater sexual stamina and confidence in healthy masculine dominance.

6

SHAMANIC VISION QUESTS

You’ll explore your innermost truths and visionary insights through a powerful series of ancient ceremonial vision quests.
You'll have the opportunity to go through several ceremonies and powerful traditional shamanic plant medicine experiences. With a very experienced shaman leading the tribe, we'll be taking powerful plant medicines to dig deep

into the psyche, help heal past traumas, release stuck emotions and thought patterns, and access higher wisdom to gain clarity on your mission. Some of plant medicines may alter your state of consciousness or have psychedelic effect. These can be intense but you will be very well prepared both mentally and physically and held in a safe environment with experienced facilitators overseeing your journey.

Ready to move beyond Anxiety and Depression?

I can fix that.

Be calm, in control, non-reactive.

Achieve more without chaos.

Overcome emotional baggage holding you back.

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS:

 
 
 

LIVE LIFE WITH MORE CHOICE AND FREEDOM!

Experience the adventure

Embark on a transformative journey that enhances well-being and emotional intelligence, fostering deeper connections and confidence. 

Increase happiness and well-being

Manage and develop emotional intelligence

Overcome relationship struggles

Boost confidence and make connections

Transform your dating life

Set and achieve your goals

Clear traumas and limiting beliefs

Develop positive habits

Improve focus and attention for success

Find inner peace and connect spiritually

Overcome personal obstacles and cultivate positive habits for success, while finding inner peace and spiritual alignment. Supported by a community, experience holistic growth and masculine actualization through practical insights and lifestyle design.

A 30 minute Conversation With Shae Can Change Your State Right Now

FEELING TRAPPED AND STUCK IN YOUR LIFE?

Struggling to Find Purpose and Fulfillment?

 You might be experiencing emotional turmoil, disconnected from yourself and others, lacking clarity, confidence, and direction. Instead of thriving, you may find yourself barely managing day-to-day life, with no clear path to feeling empowered or connected.

Experiencing constant stress and dissatisfaction?

Struggling with emotional instability and overwhelm?

Facing recurring conflicts in relationships?

Feeling insecure and isolated from others?

Stuck in a frustrating and unfulfilling dating life?

Lacking direction and unable to make progress?

Trapped by past traumas and limiting beliefs?

Engaging in harmful, self-sabotaging habits?

Distracted, unfocused, and missing opportunities?

Feeling disconnected, restless, and lacking inner peace?

Feel weighed down by unresolved challenges and destructive habits, preventing you from achieving success. Lacking a sense of inner peace or spiritual connection, you might feel isolated, without a supportive community. Struggling to grow or find purpose, you may be stuck in patterns that keep you from becoming the person you know you could be, lacking the practical guidance to create real change in your life.

A 30 minute Conversation With Shae Can Change Your State Right Now